jueves, 7 de noviembre de 2013

What about bullying?



What is bullying?

To bull is the act of treat someone with violence. Words of  homophobia, sexist and intelligence discrimination are pretty common to be listen in this world's important issue.

This type of treat, tend to hurt the bullied in different ways. One of them, is the psychological element.
Normally, the affected person stop with their normal attitude towards life and to people near him. Stop eating, cry, lost the interest in studies, etc. We have to remember every person has a different form to keep themselves living, but their behaviour usually change a lot.

The other edge of the matter, is the physical element. This element always involve the first one we talk about. Obviously, the idea of someone looking for you just to hurt you, would be scary to anyone. And if we maintain this situation along the time, it should damage every psyche.
The affected, normally, try to hide the injuries they have and don't want people to know about that dramatic state.


What to do in such situation?


I will talk about the whole problem, including the main phases to deal with it. Of course, in a personal opinion.
First, it is important to pay attention to someone you know is lacking of their normal confidence or attitude towards others. If you found the problem is effectively bullying, you should make taking part both part of the case; the bullied and the bully. Now, the need to receive, of course, psychological treatment. Something converts guys, especially, in a "bullyingable" person, is the false notion of people being better than others. He needs to know everyone has the same importance, o after that, help him to accept is not his fault. In the case of the abuser, the first thin to teach him, is the same of before, make sure to understand everyone worth the same. And then, find which is the problem- the real- that  make his acts take that way.




Thanks for reading!